If you want me to like you enough or be close enough to you to hug you, respect my touching boundaries. And don’t yell that you’re going to hug EVERYONE…except for me…because I don’t like hugs.
I do like hugs. What I don’t like are people who try and guilt or shame me into doing something when I don’t want to, to the point where I feel the need to hide in the bathroom while my boyfriend has to explain basic boundaries to you. Which is why I glared at you. And turned down your passive aggressive little handshake.